It's not because I seek younger men, they come after me. It would be interesting to hear from guys who like older women and get more insight.I know one younger man who says that he has always liked older women because they are sexier and more equal to him intellectually.Here's everything you need to know about dating a 30-year-old in your 20s:1. — he's got it all planned out from brunch, to biking, to bonding! Just never refer to his age in a bad light because that is his Achilles Heel; it’s what his mother nags him about.

Later on, once you're in and they trust you won't ruin their reputation, run away with their money (chiefly in the form of wasted presents), or go batsh*t crazy, they're hooked. So just keep your inner-psycho on a leash for a couple months, kay?

Maybe not mentioning the dumb sh*t you did abroad is a good idea, too.8. Here are the tell-tale signs he's 30 going on 13: A) He still proactively buys tickets to an EDM concert and can only pontificate about DJs, B) He is incapable of choosing a proper place, date and time for your first meeting (i.e.

Laura Argintar is the Senior Women's Writer at Elite Daily.

Ok So I am 43, look 34 and only ever find young men attractive and vice versa.

You know those girls who refuse to date anyone younger than they are, much less anyone their own age? ) And I obviously have the matching theory as to why to go along with it (naturally, it involves being the younger sister).

They have a specific, thought-out reasoning as to why they're only romantically compatible with guys who are older… Throughout my entire love life — or whatever you want to call what has been 23 years of going through men, some for longer than others — I have never so much as lusted after any guy who is younger than I am. Without going too much into my dating career, the main factor in all of my relationships — significant or otherwise — has always been the man's age.

Okay, so maybe these guys aren't all they are hyped up to be.

That being said, early on, a lot of the magic (so to speak) is due to the appeal of their age.

Smart girls with personality can rejoice after years of griping that guys never give them a chance because the boys have finally grown up! You’ll know when he likes you or not; 30-year-olds don't play games.