That said most straight guys I know still don't hold the highest view of feminine men due to their perceived difference from the masculine norm, hence finding them weird.

But the main jist of it is, they aren't interested in dating a man, regardless of whether he behaves effeminately or not.

There are actual incidences where legitimate trans people have even been beaten and killed since the person they were meeting with thought they were biologically the gender they present as.

I forgot how this topic got brought up but his friend said that if he were ever gay, he'd only go for feminine gay guys or Crossdressers.

Now, I'm sure he's not gay, he mostly does talk about girls but it did leave me thinking.

I only say this because femininity seems to repulse gay men but for straight men, they tend to love and appreciate femininity more. What you are suggesting sounds like cat-fishing where you pretend to be someone you are not.

There is a lot of material about peoples experience with cat-fishing and it is almost universally negative.

Then applied all this and pretended to be a girl on said dating site to meet a straight guy. Well I think this particular idea will not pan out particularly well in reality.

Do you think a feminine gay guy could have the chance to meet and date a straight guy? One has to remember the reason they are on a STRAIGHT dating site is because they are looking for someone of the opposite sex.Not to sound hateful with the last part just wondering. I already know I'm being a hypocrite for not being attracted or wanting to date another feminine guy. I don't get romantic feelings towards another feminine guy, only a friend level.In the end, I'd prefer someone masculine because it balances out my feminine personality.And conversely the male anatomy is a turn off to them irregardless of whether the guy said anatomy is attached to is effeminate. Well I mean, yeah, I'm not a woman, no vagina or boobs. Man, this is why I'm envious of straights sometimes, they're much more open to dating opposites. Also, as a fem gay yourself, why discriminate and limit yourself as to who you date? Do you have any problem dating masculine bisexual men? What about dating a guy who is somewhere inbetween fem and masculine? The problem I have with bisexual men is they will usually just choose a girl in the end because either they like them more than guys or it's easier for them to date and be accepted in society.Not to sound hateful with the last part just wondering. Also, as a fem gay yourself, why discriminate and limit yourself as to who you date? So bisexual guys just rub me wrong a little after those two experiences...p .main-container #login input[type=text], .main-container #login input[type=password] .main-container #login input[type=text] .main-container #login input[type=password] .main-container #login div .main-container .remember-forgot .main-container .main-container .main-container #login div label .main-container button .main-container #social .main-container #social span .main-container #social span.facebook .main-container #social span.google .main-container #social span.twitter .main-container #social span.yahoo .main-container .main-container .