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Dating and no sex-22

I've even met some Christians who disapprove of KISSING passionate/making out, before marriage. They may or may not have remained chaste until the wedding day, but it's interesting that it was 'expected' that they at least retain the facade of not getting intimate before marriage. We waited at least 6 months before heavy petting and waited 4 years for intercourse. I was always super respectful of my roommates and never wanted to kick them out or make them uncomfortable. Please stop projecting your own issues relating to STDs in the forum onto other people.

So I assume dating for these people is like dating when you're 10-11? So anyway, there weren't a lot of opportunities for serious sexual frustration because we didn't get many opportunities where we would have done it anyway. There is a separate forum for health related topics. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.

In a thread of mine I'm too lazy to seearch for, much less link too, someone opined that six months is too long to wait for sex in a dating relationship. So I ask you: how long is too long to wait for the first two-backed-beast making?

Do you make any allowances for a person's special circumstances? I'd have to do all the options for gay and straight and bi and male and female and transsexual and frankly I can't be bothered.

Not to sound condescending, of course (I've never been in any type of RS), since they're adults and I'm sure the EMOTIONS they feel for each other are very very strong. I'm not having a go at it, either, just want to sort of understand. Like I alluded, we weren't completely innocent either.

I assume for the majority kissing is of course a part of it, for some maybe oral sex/using hands, giving sexy massages...

If two adults are dating and attracted to each other there is simply no reason to wait for sex past 3-4 dates or a couple weeks.

Anything longer simply screams of waiting for the sake of proving something, or punishing me for your past bad choices in men.

You can mention that stuff if you want, but I for one don't intend to insist. I mean how long is too long from the individual poster's point of view.