The problem is my mentally ill mother, from whom I have been estranged for years.She was a terrible parent with some unholy combination of paranoia, delusional thinking, rage problems, and narcissism, and she refuses to seek help.

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I've been trying to ignore her, but her latest tactic is to threaten that she will "tell the press what a horrible daughter you are." So now I'm entering the realm of lawyers, R. I'm wondering if I should just skip the ceremony—this is getting incredibly stressful, and I'm worried she'll crash it and ruin the day for others. A: Congratulations at being recognized for your heroic acts.

How wonderful to think that two people will get to live out their lives because of you.

Many readers have made the good suggestion that this brother and sister contact the Trevor Project, a crisis intervention organization for gay youth, and PFLAG, another support network.

Both these groups have hotlines, and people there might be able to direct the 16-year-old to a safe, supportive place. Newly Found Heritage: I have just discovered, through Ancestry.com, that my father's mother and her family were black. I and my children are ecstatic about this newfound information.

How can I get my three sisters to accept their family roots or at least come to terms with it. You may be able to contact a side of the family no one knew about. But their reaction, disappointing as it is, shouldn't affect your pleasure in pursuing your ancestry. Mentally Ill Mother: A few months ago I saved two lives at personal risk (though that wasn't on my mind at the time).

The media covered the incident, and the governor kindly invited me to a state function where citizens receive commendations.

I want to call the police, but my husband thinks that would be taking things too far. At least you don't say that your mother-in-law gave some cockamamie excuse that she was just trying to protect your son from the bisphenol A in his baby-bottle nipple.

But the fact that this letter is about your mother-in-law's nipple is enough to give anyone feelings of morning sickness.

When she didn't bring him, I figured she was just rocking him back to sleep and went to see if she needed anything, like a bottle from the fridge. A: Seeing your mother-in-law turn herself into a human pacifier must have been quite a shock.