They might think: “Why is this girl going out with me?

Also, the guy you are dating is most likely dating other girls.

If those other girls are having sex with him and you aren’t, he might start paying more attention to the other girls. So…third date: That’s, say, three weeks of knowing someone. What do you know about a man and his intentions after such a short amount of time?

I’m sleeping with him, because I really want to for the sake of my own needs, and I’ll be okay with whatever happens,” then go for it.

If you can’t genuinely say that to yourself, then continue to wait until you’re in a more comfortable place, or until you’re more certain that he values you for more than just a roll in the hay. Locario: I agree that a woman should do what she is comfortable with.

The question I posed to him is a common dilemma in the dating world: When’s the right time to sleep with someone you’re dating?

I appreciate how this conversation ended in a when it comes to dating and sex.

If she doesn’t have sex with me soon then I am going to keep it moving.” Again, waiting this long might still make him lose interest, because if he is dating another woman at the same time as you and likes her just as much as you, but she is having sex with him then she might grab his attention, and then, before you know it, he isn’t calling you as much as he used to.

There was actually a story on ABC dateline about a woman who would just go out with guys so that they could buy her dinner. So from a man’s perspective he doesn’t want to waste his time and money on a woman who he feels has no interest in him sexually.

Neely: From a woman’s perspective, it often works a bit differently.

Are you’re saying you’d be out the door if a woman (who you are really into and has most, if not all, of the qualities you are looking for in a girlfriend or wife) were to say to you, “I really enjoy spending time with you, I’m super attracted to you, but I know myself and I’m not comfortable sleeping with someone so soon.

I prefer to wait a little and get to know each other more, and if you’re not okay with that, then I totally understand and we might not be a good fit for each other”?