UPDATE: Jay Spark has written an update on his dating experiences, since this article was published. Asiance readers must get approached by guys like me and it must be hard to understand the behavior, I imagine it would frustrate and annoy you if you don't understand it.

I get asked all the time, as a white guy who mostly dates Asian women, why I date Asian women more than any others.

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That may be true of some, I don't know, but not of all. American culture stifles talk about race, so when people find others with whom they can speak openly, months of withheld observations can come out.

On the other hand, people seem to love talking about the subject. Unfortunately, even friends can be quick to judge and polarize the conversation, often ending it, with one misstatement.

People often ascribe negative motivations to behavior they don't understand.

It's a sensitive and personal topic, so it's hard to talk about.

My last ex was Asian.” To highlight the absurdity of these all too common comments, check out this hilarious video of what would it look like if the roles were switched and APIA women said this stuff to white men.