His list of best Australian cities for the single guy looks like this:1. This would be rare in Melbourne and Brisbane and unheard of in Perth and Canberra," says James."Even the most desirable women can really struggle here with the 'man drought'.So much so, that many decent women just give up on dating altogether, making the dating pool even smaller for less confident guys."Still, James says many guys do struggle to attract women in Sydney for a variety of reasons.(iii) "Many desirable guys new to Sydney report seeing many attractive women by day, but have no luck ever finding where they go at night.

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This would be among the really beautiful women, who are not willing to date just another beer swilling, surfing, footy player," says James."For the many Perth guys who really do struggle, consider getting some style advice and maybe taking your annual holiday in the eastern suburbs of Sydney, where there are large numbers of attractive, educated women just waiting for masculine, single guys," he says.

NB: Billabong hat, singlet, boardies and thongs with Oakley's sunglasses won't get you far here, however.

It seems there are 10 tall, athletic, masculine, highly-paid guys for each hot girl," says James."It has a heavy, almost-overwhelming sport, beach, drinking culture compared to most other places in Australia.

It seems to be an extremely masculine place, even in the really wealthy places."Because of the weather, it's really a minimal clothing city so men and women must stay in shape. However, thanks to the mining boom you'll also encounter "materialism, status-consciousness on a grand scale"."A little bit of good news: guys who are just a bit more enlightened, better dressed and more well read than average can find a really powerful niche in Perth.

So, if the Cross is not your style, you'd think hot girls don't go to bars much."(v) "The extremely high cost of living and spectacular property prices understandably can make some women fairly cautious in their choice of mate.

A woman who grew up in eastern Sydney may need to marry a man on a reasonable income if she is to live near where she grew up, and be able to take time off work to raise her kids," says James.About 3 years ago, I finally got an invitation to one such event, and bought a ticket. Have I pointed out that being above 5'9", I'm actually taller than average?However, when I got there they informed me that I couldn't go in because it was a "Tall Men" event, and I needed to be at least 6 feet tall to participate. I got a refund for the ticket, and realistically, I didn't read the email well enough, and that's my fault. Since that time I received another invitation for another Tall Men event, which I ignored, obviously.Remember, though, a little bit of style and culture can go a long way with some of the best ladies.James says dating can be very tough for guys, yet for fit, reasonably attractive women it's very easy."There's a small number of extremely attractive women (the city is famous for models) and, because of the weather, everything is always on display.He's thus rather uniquely positioned to compare the pros and cons of each (except Darwin and Hobart, sorry)."Generally, Australian men are a little less socially and romantically savvy, compared to Europeans and even Americans," says James."Dating skills and social intelligence are certainly not subjects taught at school, which is a bit unfortunate. Well, if you're a single man in Perth, James feels sorry for you. Men have a huge number attractive, intelligent women (who will only date a certain kind of guy) and a large number of tourists to choose from," says James.