Most claimed to be "more attractive than average" — 72 percent of women, 68 percent of men. You may be wonderful, but if you look like a total schlump, women will flee. However, they don't want sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Women said they weighed 20 pounds less than average. Ask a friend, preferably a woman, to accompany you. Plan to spend a day — yes, guys, one entire day — and one to two weeks' income on your makeover. After a few dates, most older women feel fine about going horizontal, and don't care if your erections are iffy or gone. Say, "I'm sorry, but there's no chemistry for me." And be prepared to hear those words yourself — frequently. " Longtime sex educator and counselor Michael Castleman, M.

They seem interested, but after a few e-mails, they disappear.

And 4 percent said they earned more than $200,000 a year, while less than 1 percent of Internet users actually do. As soon as you meet, she'll see your height and weight and how attractive you are.

Christian senior dating are areas in which there have not been a lot of options and have more recently begun, in recent months, to take-off.

Prior to then senior people had sites and groups in which they could mingle, join, and hope to find a companion for those hours that senior people needed filled with entertainment, laughter, bonding and hopefully love.

This is even more true for those dating after death or divorce of a spouse.

Even so, we do see God's hand in leading people to each other.

There needs to be positive growth in the areas of more senior dating avenues as well as more christian senior ones to only name a couple.

How will you beat the odds against a successful remarriage?

For every 1,000 births, by age 50, women outnumber men 954 to 920, according to a 2009 U. If a woman is interested in you, she'll probably initiate contact.

Tell everyone you know that you're interested in dating. Save Money: Get AARP member discounts on travel, shopping and more 2. It's not "two girls for every boy," like the Beach Boys sang, but demographics trend that way. The good news: As the decades pass, women increasingly outnumber men, which subtly works in your favor. That's one reason why Betty and Veronica no longer sit by the phone waiting for Archie to call. And while you're at it, make sure your Facebook page won't raise eyebrows.

En español │After 20 years, you're single again and, heaven help you, on the brink of dating.