*The article, Are You Dating A Loser was written by Joseph M. So, read on, and by the end of the article hopefully you will have gained some insight and will able to answer the question that he poses in his title.

The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of “The Loser” and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.

If your partner possesses even one of these features, there is risk in the relationship.

They can turn what is supposed to be a loving, supporting, and understanding relationship into the “fatal attraction” often described in movies.

There are a variety of “bad choices” that may be encountered each week – most of which are easily to identify and avoid.

If you spot, like, more than three of these behaviors, it's time to reevaluate your life and your choices (not to mention your relationship).

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" which really translates to, "please don't ask me to hang out." 10.

When other guys flirt with you in front of him he seems totally unfazed, not in a chill, do-whatever-you-want-because-I'm-a-feminist way, but in the honestly-could-not-care-less-about-you way. When you run into other girls when you're out, he definitely doesn't introduce you as his girlfriend, and sometimes doesn't introduce you at all. He's always texting other people when you're together, and they're def not all bros. He shadily will not respond to you during prime date hours of 7-11pm, because he's obvs on other dates. His friends avoid direct eye contact with you when there's other girls flirting with him, and more than likely some of them are also hooking up with him. He's never initiated taking a picture with you, and he's never posted one of you guys hanging out on his social media.

In an effort to provide some warning about these very damaging individuals, this paper will outline a type of individual commonly found in the dating scene, a male or female labeled “The Loser”.