This study surveyed a sample of personal ad writers to examine the role that consumer activities play in presenting the self and attracting a potential mate.Research on mate selection involves a myriad of theoretical approaches, ranging from genetic theories to Jungian psychology.

The use of products and consumer activities can play an important role in how people define, present, and symbolize themselves to others, which is a critical step in the dating and mating process.

One dating arena where the link between consumer activities and romantic self-presentation is explicit is personal advertisements, designed to attract responses from readers.

This study draws on three diverse, yet complementary research areas: self-presentation; possessions as symbols; and an evolutionary approach to mate selection and parental investment.

The evolutionary framework offers the chance to understand consumer behavior as an extension of behavior patterns established long before the age of consumer goods.

Over the same period, singles ads, once the exclusive domain of off-beat publications, have become an established feature in most major newspapers and many magazines such an the New York Review of Books.

Movies, like Crossing Delancy and Sea of love, along with television shows like Thirty Something, all incorporate these new introduction techniques into their story lines.

This does not imply, however, that individuals are consciously attempting to maximize their ability to produce viable offspring.

Furthermore, culture has reinforced male and female evolutionary preferences through institutions such as marriage and more recently the media.

The market for products designed to enhance one's attractiveness, such as personal care items, is substantial.