I am now in my late 20’s, thus, I am referring to men who are in their 40’s.

I am always drawn to them; Maybe it is their maturity, or the way they express their opinions on difficult topics or it is the way they carry themselves or maybe it is because they are already self-sufficient.

They are twenty years apart, and they’ve been together for two. “I watch so many of my other friends agonize over text messages from guys who . It’s not an “old-fashioned” dating scheme, it’s just a more humane one.

But I’ve noticed a new strategy among my set of female friends—lovely, intelligent, independent women—to combat the grime of the online dating world: date up. More and more women I know are dating men twice, yes , Anne Hathaway stands with Robert De Niro and a bunch of young male colleagues in a bar and draws a harsh comparison: “How in one generation have men gone from guys like Jack Nicholson and Harrison Ford to . I see what Hathaway means: Why put up with Tinder when there’s a whole generation of men out there who wouldn’t dream of using it?

There have never been more advantages to relationships with older men, precisely because Tinder and its ilk have made dating feel impossible to those of us who don’t want to participate in the battle of who-cares-less.

Their previous experiences have helped them learn what women generally want and what makes women happy.

They are able to control their sexual urges more responsibly and they know which body part is sensitive to touch etc.

I am not saying that women should depend on their partner financially but some societies consider it ideal for women to stay at home and take care of the kids and the husband will work for the family. I am pretty sure this statement will get a lot of comments and disagreements because women generally have different sexual preferences and I respect that of course.

And women date in order to find a man whom she can live her life and start a family with. In my opinion though, older men have had their fair share of both short-lived and more stable relationships and this gives them a bit of an advantage when it comes to handling relationships.

So if you are dating an older guy, do not be wasteful of money.

He earned every penny through hard work and he wouldn’t like it if you spend it carelessly on things that don’t really matter.

would have you believe, is evolving into an elaborate charade of deception: Everybody is petrified of giving someone the “wrong idea.” Men are impolite to the point of viciousness to ensure that the women they just hooked up with understand they don’t want a relationship.