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Cultivating a relationship can be fun for some men, but it contains one issue that can potentially be a huge drawback for many men: quasi-monogamy.

Sometimes women ask me questions like, “How could a dude go from saying he really likes me, to just falling out of my life completely?

” or “Why do men come on so strong and then fade away?

” (we’re talking about falling back, not “ghosting” which is a completely different level of douchebaggery).

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Among the site’s 7 million members, men outnumber women by roughly six to one.) “The old branding was focused around shock lines, frat humor and stereotypes,” Ruby rep Debra Quinn tells Ad Freak.Rather than focusing on cultivating a union with someone who may just look good on paper, or someone you don’t really want but are choosing to entertain to combat loneliness, look for that chemistry that satiates you emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically.Don’t drop your standards, become more resolute about them.There seems to be a running narrative that women need to be more open to “giving a dude a chance” to prove that the man is actually the guy she’s been looking for the entire time. In fact, the main reason I believe women shouldn’t ever lower their standards to accommodate a man is because most men hate the idea of downsizing their own expectations for a woman.In fact, not only do many of us hate the idea of entertaining a woman that doesn’t fit our ideals, but a lot of men actually hate even attempting to cultivate new relationships.If more men and women focused on finding the people they were meant to be with, there would be a lot less people learning the horrific truth of bad relationships: there’s nothing worse than being in a relationship and still feeling lonely.