I meet people from very different walks of life: men who are the first in their family to have gone to college; who have ambitions they’re making happen any way they can.Yes, the sex is great, and the six-pack abs are nice, but what I also get out of my approach to dating is meeting men I admire and respect.

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OKCupid data shows that men of all ages find women in their early to mid-20’s to be the most attractive. Our main attraction switches are a youthful, healthy physical appearance.

Women tend to find men their own age most attractive even until they’re both in their 40’s. This goes back to our biological need to “spread our seed”.

You don’t have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20’s.

On the other hand, many women are most attracted to men in their 30’s, 40’s, and even 50’s.

Most female sex icons are in their 20’s or early 30’s.

Hollywood hunks are often in their 30s, 40’s, and older.Older women have always been attracted to younger men and younger men have always been attracted to older women.Unfortunately, the usual double standard applies: older man, younger woman — no one bats an eyelid.If those words made you cringe, I’m sorry, but I’m just trying to be as direct as possible. Any way you want to look at it, complications such as down syndrome and miscarriages in pregnancy rise with age.So it makes perfect sense that men are driven to younger women who have the lowest risk factors. Since they were teenagers, many women have idolized older men.I believe everyone should be free to design the relationship model that works for them — and for me that’s dating younger men. I respond to maybe one percent of all the approaches I get.