Now that I'm out, I realize how much work fooling around with a married man is and I refuse to be the scapegoat for his inability to get real with himself.

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and p.m., behind the half-burned building on 12th and Oak.

Park your car on 13th and make sure no one sees you.

All I need is a computer, an Internet connection and an hour of free time.

There are numerous sites where "married men for married men" lurk.

Some gay men are going to disagree with me about this, but others will shout, "Amen!

" I've heard something like this all too often: "Meet me on Thursday between p.m.

By Rick Clemons for Your Just a little over 12 years ago, I would have said, "I'm not gay, I just like having sex with men! Granted, if you're a male and having sex with other males, you could be bisexual, but whatever you are, you should just admit it. I was caught in a dysfunctional sexual limbo that made no sense.

Of course, things have changed and I'm a happy homosexual now.

This double-talk taught me that a majority of these guys are just in it to get their rocks off in ways they aren't getting at home. Just don't plan on walking down the aisle or living together when his philosophy is clearly just about sex.