I also noticed their husbands were all shorter than they were; I wondered if it was because of the heels.Something suddenly dawned on me after a few seconds, something obvious and slightly disturbing.

She was in town for the weekend from Boston, and I was treating her to shrimp stew, churros and the tales of my not-so-glamorous life in NYC.

As we sat sipping coconut broth mixed with rice, I looked up and noticed three couples enter the restaurant, waiting for the hostess to return from the kitchen to seat them.

This is the story of my life; it’s happened without fail every single time I’ve been confronted by an attractive guy, since I became interested in boys at around age 10 or so … Twenty years of misery regarding the opposite sex is too much to bear, and I definitely don’t want to be single for the rest of my life.

I definitely don’t want to go back to dating ugly, dumb guys, but I’m still terrified of attractive men, even if I want to get to know them better, and even if they seem vaguely interested in me.

It’s easier said than done, but it’s a necessary step to deal with the situation.

While other people may judge and wonder, you need to remember a relationship between you and your boyfriend is between you and your boyfriend – that means two people, and no one else and no one else’s opinions.

For instance, you will want a file on “Ways to suggest we have a drink”:“Would you like to have a drink with me? ”Once in the taxi, you may need a small flashlight in your purse in order to read the index cards. (“Whereas we are two free human beings freely choosing to associate in the manner that suits us both; and Whereas we feel confident that if we spend some time together we will, being each of us intellectually nimble, in due time find ample ground for conversation …”) “Since You Asked,” the best of Cary Tennis, signed first editions on sale now.

’.”You will also need phrases you can use to initiate activities. ” “Let’s get a taxi and go to a bar I know.” “Would you like to walk out of here with me on your arm and hail a taxi?

Studies have indicated most women prefer to date men less attractive than them.

This mentality lies in the fear that more attractive men are more likely to stray.

Here are some more phrases:“My friends say these index cards are just a crutch, and I agree.”“My name is ———““Would you like to go out on a date with me this Wednesday night? File them under subjects, like, “Acceptable replies to compliments about my physical attractiveness” and “Acceptable replies to the question, ‘So, what do you do? ” “Let’s go get smashed.” “Have you ever danced in a public fountain?