You might think this will make you stand out as "not one of those guys," and it does.

Even though it's getting more popular, talking to women online isn't that easy.

There are some proven things that work when trying to start conversations, though.

Sure, most people know that women tend to get a lot of messages from men and that some of them are ridiculous. In some cases, you can tell a girl that you liked her profile and it will totally work for you.

That fact, however, has nothing to do with you and her, and really nothing to do with her. In others, it just makes it sound like she passed a test, and tests aren't fun.

For sites that are more known for people looking for relationships, it's best to try some other kinds of approaches, which will vary depending on your age, where you live, and who you're trying to meet. Here are some approaches you can try: Example: A cup of coffee turns me from a grumpy morning person to a happy morning person! You also gave her an easy question to answer if she wants to continue the conversation. Another problem with this approach is that you have to get from the awkward "hello we are both strangers" to going on a date with them. If you like her, talking about noticing her spelling error might be the perfect thing to bring up on your 20th date, or never.

That's probably going to take more messages than you want to send or she'll want to respond to. Take an extra minute and send her a message that shows you read her profile and are interested in her specifically.

Explanation: I actually made this up and 90% of the time it works fabulously. Even if she's a little defensive at first, it's much better than no response. Explanation: She'll like the fact you gave her a compliment, but she'll be intrigued or outraged at how you think you know her. These are the ones that have worked really well for me, but here are some other pointers in case you tried these already or you want some other approaches to test out. If she doesn't, then you won't waste your time messaging her.

Getting a girl to respond to you on Tinder or similar sites is less about relationships and more about the game. I'm going to a dodgeball tournament with my friends on Monday night. You seem like the kind of girl that might be into that sort of thing. Now you have your openers, get ready to respond to her replies!

Saying something like, "You have one of the best profiles I've seen!