We are going to venture a guess into the state of mind of Ashley here, given that we are all working women ourselves.Take a seat, because this concept may blow your mind. It’s happened over time, we know, but a vast majority of women from our generation have jobs.

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Paakhi lives in the United Arab Emirates and is an avid reader of historical fiction.

She is a passionate feminist and blogs about politics and feminist issues.

She likes to listen to music and document her life in a series of journals she will probably never show to anyone.

However, happiness should not be dependent on external factors such as, in this case, a relationship partner. You are meant to belong to someone, an unattached man. Hear me out or at least, listen to your parents and friends’ advices. End this sinful relationship and encourage your current partner to reconcile with his wife.

This story angered me, it gave me shivers to know that I live in a world where people so casually deny women the right to their own bodies.

It was at that moment that I decided I was a feminist, and that I hated people who wanted to take away my rights and give it to a fetus who was using body to survive without my consent.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure there are still decent humans who frequent the apps, but for every polite message there's two waiting for the right moment to send a dick pic. But positive changes seem to be happening thanks to dating app Bumble, which lets people ‘match’ but puts the ball in the girl’s court because it’s down to them to make the first ‘move’ and start chatting.

Recently they decided to call out one of their male users (Connor) in an open letter for being for being agressive and misogynistic to a female user, Ashley.

With that in mind — and knowing that Ashley simply mentioned work in the conversation — we can gather that she wasn’t hoping to figure out if your wallet was sizeable enough for her to move into your house and start cooking dinner for you after vacuuming your living room while you clock in a 9 to 5 work day.

Instead, Ashley was (wait for it, Connor, because this is where things really get interesting), viewing herself as an equal.

It might sound crazy, but people connect over the basic routines of life. the weather, working out, grabbing a drink, eating, and working.