Possible problems of dating people
The following are some tips to help you meet and date other people.Yes, the first tip is a boring one, but also extremely important.
For example, a man that wants a relationship and has some anxiety will often get enough bravery to go up to some woman somewhere and talk to her, and once he does he'll start hoping and praying she's the one and put a great deal of pressure on a relationship growing from that one conversation.
Then, if she simply isn't interested or has a boyfriend or what have you, he feels worse about himself and experiences more anxiety in the future.
Social anxiety is at its worst in environments that promote too much social behavior.
Many people with social anxiety still try to meet people in "normal" meeting places, like bars, clubs, or parties.
It's a good idea to try to make sure that you find and spend time with a best friend if you have social anxiety.
When you go to social events, don't go to meet people.
For example, there are several places online to find hiking groups, and hiking groups are generally 4 to 5 people at most.
Even though such a small group of people means that you may not find someone you connect with, small groups also give you an opportunity to practice socially and could introduce you to friends, which in turn can help you meet someone someday.
Shame is a common emotion with social phobia, where a person feels embarrassed when they start to experience anxiety during a conversation.