We began to notice that the women who played hard to get, either deliberately or by accident, were the ones who got the guys, while the women who asked guys out or were too available were the ones who got dumped.

We put two and two together, and wrote and wrote, and that’s how The Rules were born!

We are wives, mothers, co-authors, dating coaches, and have been best friends for the last 30 years.

We came up with the idea for a self-help dating book called The Rules after many, many dinners with single girlfriends at the now-defunct Sung Chu Mein, a Chinese restaurant on the Upper East Side in New York City—it was sort of like Sex and the City, but before Sex and the City!

Even tough your signs may not seem "perfectly compatible" at first.

As it happened with me, just a few years ago, I could read a guy who is stone cold.

I couldn't believe it, and I imagine he couldn't either, when one day I stumbled upon something that was strangely powerful yet subtle.

Initially I was skeptical about it, but once I saw its magic, I naturally realized its power. And in a moment you will see how Astrology can help you discover his inner psychology and the way his mind works, and why he does what he does.

We had no idea The Rules would become a bestseller…

we just wanted to help women stop making mistakes and get the men of their dreams—and that’s what we still do now, 20 years later!

Are you friendly with people who continually hurt you?

We’ll show you how to do The Rules on them so you stop suffering and have more time, energy and love. To schedule an in-person dating, makeover/clothes (yes, we clean out your closet!

And that may as well be the case with that Virgo man in your life, with all his unique personality traits.